Divorce Problem 1: Fear of Damaging Their Image
Client Story: Lisa was a successful businesswoman in Peoria, Illinois. When her marriage began to unravel, she feared the gossip and scrutiny that would follow. Together, we crafted a “public narrative” for her divorce, focusing on shared parenting and mutual respect. I coached her on handling difficult conversations with colleagues and friends while maintaining boundaries. Lisa told me later that she felt empowered to share only what was necessary, avoiding unnecessary drama and protecting her professional reputation.
If you are wondering if you should get a divorce coach, let this be your sign: YES! Katie was incredible throughout the entire process. I was so lucky to come across her name in a google search, as I stumbled to find my way through my divorce. With Katie’s help, I went from feeling overwhelmed to feeling focused and in control. She has vast knowledge, caring attitude, and practical approach. You don’t have to go through it alone or take advice from friends and family that may not understand all the intricacies of the process. I highly recommend her services! There’s a saying, “Luck favors the prepared”. Katie was my lucky charm, she prepared me for the biggest decisions of my life. Thank you! ~Jessica D, Dunlap, Illinois Divorce Problem 2: Concerns About Childrens' Well-Being
Client Story: Mark was a father of two young boys from Mackinaw, Illinois and was devastated by the thought of how the divorce might affect them. He didn’t want his conflict with his ex to spill over into their lives. I worked with Mark to develop a co-parenting plan that prioritized the boys’ routines and emotional needs. We practiced calm communication strategies for interactions with his ex. Mark later shared that the tools he learned allowed his boys to adjust well, feeling secure and loved despite the family changes.
I am so grateful I choose to work with Katie. From the start, Katie was kind and professional, empathetic and helpful. With her knowledge and guidance, it gave me the confidence to work with my ex as we navigated the ending of our marriage. It was extremely important to us both that the process remain amicable. Divorce Problem 3: Fear of Financial Instability
Story: Samantha, from Morton, Illinois was terrified of losing her financial independence after her divorce. She didn’t fully understand the financial implications of the settlement and felt overwhelmed by the sheer amount of paperwork. I helped Samantha organize her financial documents, identify key priorities and prepare thoughtful questions for her attorney. I also connected her with a trusted financial planner in Morton to ensure her long-term stability. By the time the divorce was finalized, Samantha felt in control of her finances and confident about her future.
Divorce Problem 4: Overwhelmed by Legal Complexity
Client Story: Tom, from Dunlap, Illinois, had never been involved in legal matters before and was completely overwhelmed by the divorce process. He didn’t know how to select the right attorney or even where to start. I helped Tom define his goals, assess Family Law attorneys in Central Illinois and prepare questions to ask during consultations. We also broke down the legal steps into manageable tasks. Tom later told me that having someone guide him through the process gave him the clarity and confidence he needed to make informed decisions and feel empowered through the process.
Divorce Problem 5: Emotional Exhaustion and Isolation
Client Story: Emily, from East Peoria, Illinois felt utterly alone during her divorce. She didn’t want to burden her friends and family, and the stress left her feeling emotionally drained. In our coaching sessions, I provided a safe space for Emily to share her fears and frustrations. We worked together to help her find a local Peoria Therapist she loved to help her manage stress. We set small daily goals to restore her sense of normalcy. Emily found solace in having a judgment-free zone and the practical tools she needed to regain her energy and optimism.
Divorce Problem 6: Uncertainty About the Future
Client Story: After 20 years of marriage, Ben from Chillicothe, Illinois felt lost about what his life would look like post-divorce. He had no idea where to start or how to rebuild. I worked with Ben to map out his personal and professional goals, focusing on what he wanted for his next chapter. We created an action plan, from taking a course to improve his skills in carpentry, setting small personal health milestones and he joined a local hiking group. A year later, Ben reached out to tell me he felt like himself again—confident and excited about his future.
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About Katie VAndenBergKatie makes her life as a Divorce Coach in Central Illinois surrounded by river valleys and prairie. Her days are spent helping her divorce clients, working with her tenants, tending to her gardens, hiking as often as possible, spending time on her pottery wheel and loving her family. Looking for a specific divorce topic? Search here!
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